Splintered Trust

READ: PSALM 55

Smiles, charm,
Perfect friends
Watching you.
Your back is turned,
Whispering begins.
Nasty remarks,
A chuckle heard.
Comments, jibes
Grind you down.
Burning tears.
Thumping heartbeat.
Subtle rejections.
Trust splintered.

When friends badmouth you, the hurt can be so deep that trusting again is challenging. David had the same problem. The first part of Psalm 55 shows how he is deeply troubled, and in verses 13 and 14, he shares the disappointment of his friend’s betrayal. In the midst of this desperation, he goes to God, the one who is always trustworthy.

When your trust has been splintered, Jesus invites you to come to Him. He loves you deeply, and He feels your pain as His own. He can truly empathize with what you’re going through because He endured the pain of betrayal, rejection, and humiliation on the cross. Why? Because He was determined to bring forgiveness for sin—including gossip and backstabbing—and to provide healing for the harm sin causes. Jesus is trustworthy even when people are not. Through it all, He will never leave your side. • Cindy Lee

• Can you think of a time someone broke your trust? Consider taking a moment to talk to Jesus about this and receive His tender compassion.

• Because we live in a broken world, not everyone can be trusted, and it’s okay to set healthy boundaries, especially with people who have shown themselves to be untrustworthy in the past. At the same time, it’s important to remember that one of the ways God extends His love and healing to us is through community. If you’re not sure who you can trust right now, you can ask God to help you identify people who will treat you with respect and care, like He does.

• Have you ever gone behind someone’s back? It’s easy to get drawn into a conversation when everyone is badmouthing someone. How can you remove yourself from situations like these? (1 Corinthians 10:13)

• If you’re in the midst of a toxic situation, who are trusted adults you can reach out to?

But I will call on God, and the LORD will rescue me. Psalm 55:16 (NLT)